Life Update.
It has been a good while since I last posted, I think it must have been end of August, start of September, and to be honest with you, I just couldn’t bare to even look at my blog, let alone keep it up. The reason being for this unusual behaviour was a recent heartbreak, but I guess you cannot call it so recent now. I can’t say it was mutual, or expected or even a nice breakup, because I was on a romantic weekend away and I got dumped and left miles away from home. I literally felt like I wouldn’t even be able to make it past the weekend, and avoiding the blog was muchly needed as my september goals mentioned the romantic weekend away and I just couldn’t bare the thought of having to relive it any more than I was. Was reading the Relationship Experts blog instead.
Flash forward to the end of October, I am so much happier! I have dabbled in dating, which is completely new to me so any tips would be fab! I started a new intense fitness regime that is killing me, but it is so motivating at the same time, but I have to hit the gym 7 days a week! It’s also my birthday in less than a week (2nd november people!) and halloween too, which is literally my favourite holiday ever! Things have started to look up, and I have realised that although it was heartbreaking, it was for the best as looking back, it was toxic for me, my mental health was suffering and I just wasn’t me anymore.
I have decided to really focus on me now, hit all the goals I want to achieve and so much more! I honestly believe everything happens for a reason, and everything will work out in the end. I hope this hasn’t been too negative, but I just thought I would update you on my life recently!
I hope life is going good for you all, and I just want to remind you, you are always loved! ♥
you sound like you are doing really well now hun. What an awful way to break up when you are away on a romantic weekend. I have never been in the dating game either so I’m afraid I can offer you any tips. Just i guess believe in your self 🙂 xx
Wow, sounds like you’ve had a rough few weeks…can’t believe someone would choose to end things on a romantic getaway! You’re better off without him if you ask me 🙂 Hope you have something amazing planned to celebrate your birthday, you deserve it!
Sorry to hear about your awful weekend – what sort of person does that to someone while on a romantic getaway! So glad to hear you are moving on and being positive about the future. 7 days a week in the gym sounds like a killer!
Debbie
I’m so sorry to hear about the break up. It sounds awful. I’m glad you’re happier. Good luck with the goals. X
Sorry to hear about your romantic weekend ending the way it did. I hope you find a great man in the future. I’ve been in that position. Angela from daysinbed
Can’t believe that happened. How awful. Glad to hear you are on the up now though. Good on you.
How dare he do that to you on a weekend that you were supposed to bask in each others love but well done for staying strong and turning your life around. I hope that blogging will be cathartic for you now.
I am so sorry Sian,but I am pleased to read that you are on the up and have even started dating a little bit. Whooa your fitness regime sounds tough but I’m sure you will smash it and achieve all of your goals! 🙂 x
Ah Sian I am so sorry you had to go through that! I’m glad you’re feeling much better now, we must exchange dating tips because I don’t have a frickin clue of where to start 😛 x
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Aww, how horrible 🙁 I’m so sorry you went through that. Break ups aren’t easy! Especially on romantic weekend away.
Yes focus on YOU now. Well done on going to the gym seven days a week, that’s pretty amazing 🙂
OMG! What a complete arse.
Glad you’re on the mend hun. Im like you gym wise… I will start monday though – Ive been saying that for the last month now *sigh*
I hope you have more motivation than i do
Charlotte x
Oh Sian, somebody who is heartless enough to do that doesn’t deserve you! I’m glad you’re feeling happier and doing well. Look to the future 🙂 Xx